Thursday, February 02, 2006

Oh, it's Valentine's Day soon




I was reading this ST special on Valentine's Day today, and had a good laugh. So I am not the only one who asks "why on earth V-Day is so near to CNY??". I had enough of questioning during CNY, asking if I am attached. I may be faced with this question soon again.

I have jokingly answered " I am attached and detached" to the question during CNY. But hey, I feel the stint of sadness whenever i said this though it was said in a casual and joking manner. I just hope the question does not pop up again during V-Day.

To me, V-Day is just like any other day. If you have a loved one and a loving relationship, everyday is a V-Day. I mean it. I have experienced this in my last relationship. I thank this special person of my life for the 18 months long of V-Day.

Btw, I heard this during my cousin's wedding a few weeks ago - "Marriage is a verb, not a noun. It is an action to stand by each other each day no matter rain or shine and how the world changes". I am not too sure what you think of this sentence. You may find it cliched or unrealistic. But I find it meaningful. And I know I will stand by it the day I decide to get married.

Cheers!

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